I have 5 days until the big day and my mind has not been focused on the wedding.  This may be to the tumultuous travel and accommodations I have had over the past few days, but not entirely.

I was re-reading S’s blog and she wrote a piece on being married.  I really like the last line in that poem stating, “If I am trapped, it is by happiness, not inertia”.  How very appropriate.  In life we make decisions either actively or passively.  I feel happy about the big day because last year I made an active choice to do this.

I’m in it for the long run, not the short term.  So every time problems arise, I ask myself what Click and Clack would do.  And they would say, “Do you want to be right? Or do you want to be happy?”  I hope we both choose to be happy forever.

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